First dates are the worst. Even if the first date is not that forced, blind kind of date, i can still turn out absolutely wrong. Even if you are planning a date with a person you really want to go on a date with, still, it does not necessarily have to mean that it will work out. However, once it does, it is simply amazing. And the price that you have paid with all the stress, is worth it. But if it does not pay off?

Well, that partly depends on you. You are the one who is a part of the date. And you can actually affect the way things will evolve from that date on. How can you do that? Well, there are four things actually, which can ruind your date, if you do them. So, if for any reason you want to ruin your date, do them, but if not, please, avoid doing them at all costs.

First thing to do if you want to ruin your date is to make bad jokes. It is just that you do not know the person too well and they may not find your creepy sense of humor funny at first.

Another thing is writing too many emails before you actually meet. Because all the getting to know each other should happen face-to-face. And not online. If you already know everything about each other, what are you going to talk about when you finally meet?

The next thing, always make sure that you are on a date. The purpose of the meeting has to be clear to both of you.

The last thing, do not put much emphasis on the first kiss. Whether it happens or not, it does not really matter on a first date.